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Dear RentMen visitors, Masseurduncan chose to answer 16 interview questions that were last updated on 20 Dec 2022

Interview

  • How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
    I try to be completely present with everyone I meet.
  • Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
    I think it was moving to Berlin in 2011. I had O-level German and no job lined up, but I found the country incredibly welcoming and I have never looked back.
  • What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
    I'm an artist and I go from one art-form to the next. Massage for me is an art-form.
  • What are your greatest personal traits?
    I am not always completely focused in my personal life, but when I give massage I am always 100 per cent present for the entire time.
  • If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
    That I'm an introvert! I'm outgoing and friendly when I meet clients, but I have a limited attention-span when it comes to parties and big noisy gatherings. I sometimes worry that people mistake introversion for rudeness or arrogance. Actually we're just a bit shy, and are worrying about the impression we are making.

    I think the people who come to erotic masseurs tend to be a bit quieter or maybe more introverted than people who go to classic ***s, because they need a situation which they know will feel safe, and where they won't be expected to perform in any way or make any kind of impression. So being an introvert enables me to relate to my clients and have a feeling for what they need in order to feel good.
  • How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
    I'm very happy in my adopted home town of Berlin so I don't travel much these days. But I nip over to London quite frequently to see family and friends. I always set aside some time for my massage practice when I'm in London, as I find the mix of people in London exciting and stimulating. I love showing people round Berlin - so if you're from out of town and don't know where to go, give me a shout!
  • If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
    I would tell you about the amazing two-year training I did with Gay Love Spirit that taught me so much about touch and pleasure, and also gave me an understanding of how to put people at their ease on a first meeting and do my best to take care of their particular needs.
  • What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
    Well, here's something about me that's personal but maybe not that unique: I enjoy this work!
  • What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
    I like spending time in the kitchen. I'm quite an expert on home fermentation and I always have a bottle of kombucha on the go. I like putting on a podcast or Spotify and taking time to cook dinner. I'm a bit of a nutrition nerd and I like to be sure that I'm getting all the right vitamins and nutrients!
  • What makes you stand out from the crowd?
    My dress sense! But I'm afraid I dress quite boringly for my massage work!
  • What do you do for fun?
    My work as a writer and musician is mostly pretty good fun. I've just finished writing my first novel in German. I just dived right in even though my German isn't perfect yet. It was hard work but the sense of satisfaction was incredible. I also love writing songs, recording with Garageband, writing and performing theatre... how long have you got? :-)
  • What is your ‘niche’?
    I'm an artist (writer and musician) who enjoys giving massage and looking after clients as a way of balancing out my life. So I'm very interested in people and in exchanging thoughts and ideas. I keep my mind active as well as my body - I read and I take in art and performance.
  • What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
    I'm nearly vegan but I have one of those bodies that needs a little meat about once a month or I get sick. For exercise I run, swim and do yoga - although the running sometimes can make you a bit too slim!
  • What should others absolutely know about you?
    That I am an introvert! I like meeting people but there is always a part of me that is quite shy.
  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    I like it that I have learnt to take things easy and go at my own pace. To slow down and let the answers come in their own time.
  • Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
    Books, good food, my friends, the lakes around Berlin, and Garageband.